How do you invite a girl on a date when you behave as if you are not worried about any problems, and as if you were not making a heavy head of feeling in love? It's a defensive mechanism. Crowding. On the one hand, there are people who desire something and go behind it and do not reach their goal because of the exaggerated but insensitive endeavor. On the other hand, there are other people and quite different.
Don't count in advance with a losing
Those who face that they do not relate to them and already pre-calculate the losing. So why seek anything if they cannot succeed anyway? There are so many guys around her, so why should she be willing to go to a meeting with you? But what if the dozen guys just got fed up and looking for someone deeper? However, you will not find out if you do not offer this meeting.